Being Busy ,Ironically ?why take a breath being alone.. ....

Being Alone ...makes us more powerful broadcast our thoughts.in the last post i shared about "for u you're not alone"well ..thanks for all ur feedbacks guys..which makes me feel to share sumthin ..not fully but partically oppsite to last post..don't compare that its a random flowss..okies  alone what makes our life productive.. here we goo just a small thought ....
In our daily lives, we strive to and take pride in being busy. We like to see ourselves multi-tasking and bask in the glory of productivity when someone acknowledges us. We live with other people (whether family or friends), work in teams and do almost everything in groups. Or we always have our mobile phone, some book or movie, or the ever ubiquitous internet with us for company. Staying alone is what we end up thinking as a waste of time.

But man is essentially an individual. He was born alone and will die alone. He does talk and interact with other people in a number of ways but in a very primitive and biological way, man is essentially individual. Sitting alone for some time should not be unsettling or unnerving, like it sometime gets in our lives. In fact, giving some time only for ourselves could be one of the most enriching experiences ever if one tries to do so. And it can solve a lot of our problems. Problems which arise only because of our inability to stay alone with our thoughts.

If one can be content while sitting alone and don’t feel (or act on) the urge of checking what your friends are doing on social media or the urge to go out and shop and eat your favourite burger or pizza, a lot of our problems can just melt away. It can break the chains and bonds of normal life and we will longer need to be constantly busy just to match up with our peers and unnecessary comparison with others. Being busy, ironically, is the place where all our problems and stress arise out of.

If you think man is a social animal and cannot survive individually, think again. Man is not fish, and from time to time, he can (and should) get away from water (daily life). We will not die like fish if we spend some time out of water (alone). In fact, we can cherish our individuality and come back to our daily lives refreshed and replenished. A day spent alone from time to time will reduce the chatter of everyday life. You learn to listen to your thoughts, be aware of the different urges to be busy you will have, and then just let them be. And let me tell you, it is not easy to be alone. It can be very unsettling at first, and you can find many reasons to ‘do‘ something. But don’t let your ‘wanting-to-be-productive’ side deny you of your right to spend some time alone.

After some time, you learn to enjoy the quietness of things. You learn to notice the sounds of the birds chirping and the wind blowing. As the clutter of daily life melts away, you are left just with your inner thoughts. At this time, you will find yourself talking to yourself. It takes time getting used to, and you can always ignore your inner voice, but you must listen to it. Some quietness can leave with you with contentment, a new perspective, and a calmer attitude. In short, it can be amazing.

Solitude also makes us realize that our life is a blank slate with nothing in it, and it is our choice what we really want to paint it with. Our life is not about the tasks and the meetings we have all through the day which look unavoidable, but is about finding ourselves. Staying

alone teaches us to be content with nothing and realizing that we can paint our life canvas the way we want. What would you call a person who is so busy reaching the destination that he never stops his car for refuelling?

Now what would you call the person who is so busy living life that she misses replenishing her own soul? We all need this refueling exercise of staying alone, and then we can take our life’s car wherever we want. So try sitting alone for some time, and just be quiet. Or perhaps take a long walk alone (like I do). Maybe start with small periods of time, and then increase the duration as you feel more comfortable with it.
ps: Just watch your thoughts in solitude but don’t act on them. Just listen, watch and be content. And you will soon realize you never needed anything more!

For you are not alone…

Just a long post but with full of emotions and I’m sure if u read whoever this is reading out  go with ur full of emotions u will get the soul out of it ..so sit back and enjoy this glimpse of emotions speaks . its all about your “specials”

 “Akele Hum kuch bhi Nai”  Alone we are nothing

among thousands ...one traveler.

five who gave me courage one who gave me shelter,

one man who had faith in me.

one girl whom i loved .

when no one knew me ,even then there were my four friends..

these relationships are what keep me going. they are the ones I talk to. if all get connected only good can come out of it ...!

 reminds me of superstar Srk getting inspired alone we are nothing ..this post is all..The person who motivate/inspires millions of people from all over the world is featured in Airtel Ads with his own life story.the Shahrukh khan Inspirational Ads by Airtel India. SRK is India’s Youth role model from last 2 years beating as poll conducted by Hindustan Times .

Here we goo…just a small poem in is my second foray into the unknown territory, for me that is, of poetry. So please leave your comments and brickbats on how you found the poem:-]

Another day has gone
I’m still all alone
How could this be
You’re not here with me
You never said goodbye
Someone tell me why
Did you have to go
And leave my world so cold

Everyday I sit and ask myself
How did love slip away
Something whispers in my ear and says
That you are not alone
For I am here with you
Though you’re far away
I am here to stay

But you are not alone
For I am here with you
Though we’re far apart
You’re always in my heart
But you are not alone

‘Lone, ‘lone
Why, ‘lone

Just the other night
I thought I heard you cry
Asking me to come
And hold you in my arms
I can hear your prayers
Your burdens I will bear
But first I need your hand
Then forever can begin

Everyday I sit and ask myself
How did love slip away
Something whispers in my ear and says
That you are not alone
For I am here with you
Though you’re far away
I am here to stay

For you are not alone
For I am here with you
Though we’re far apart
You’re always in my heart
For you are not alone

Whisper three words and I’ll come runnin’
And girl you know that I’ll be there
I’ll be there

You are not alone
For I am here with you
Though you’re far away
I am here to stay
For you are not alone
For I am here with you
Though we’re far apart
You’re always in my heart

For you are not alone
For I am here with you
Though you’re far away
I am here to stay

For you are not alone
For I am here with you
Though we’re far apart
You’re always in my heart

For you are not alone…

Ps: my life like my writing has become hackneyed. This one also soon goin to be hackneyed .anyways .who cares…

As we know this life is totally fickle and unpredictable we can’t  been except anything  what next stores  and to assume anything in life it’s a biggest mistakes u doin begin knowing what’s the truth still assuming …why so why we every time  knowing the truth sometimes waits and still our heart and mind differs alwaz I didn’t get .Is its the mechanism of our human body prevails or  our system is been auto handled by that  almighty with demo anti  virus installed  which always we need to update ..!

Will coming to the point dunno what made me fill write but its just a  emotions which been inside and I feel to put this and share with u all..

Everytime we move on , and get motivate our self to move on ..we also know this life is not about  moving alone ,been obvious talking about our fellow buddies of life “the fav”. ..why we humans alwz make choices being honest ,me too why  have any one wondered why only a few from many classmates get closer to u ?

Out of many peoples I mean 7 billions stay in this world I guess rite ..still our heart wants to have her/him with us together  why?

Out of whole places in this world…whole universe why we always we like our only room  and get fill comfortable ?

Out of whole album why only few snaps get longer stare with big smiles whenever we watch it ?Out of so many colors only a few are counted as favourties .

Have anyone wondered ? well  actually its only because  “only few things and people are destined to reach  the string of heart and make life beautiful”..

But have anyone wondered if that beautiful things or beautiful person is out of reach ?sometimes and being busy we must have come across many huddles of life and must have comes nearer to this term “BUSY” so what is it ?

Busy ? Everyone says Life is busy ? Im busy .. and when we are trying to call phone call someone if he/she is busy with someone  the network subscriber  says what –the person you are trying to reach is currently busy with someone ? Aapke jiske saat samparak karna chahte hain woh abhi vistha hai kripya thodi deer baar call kare ..plz try after some time  .

I know how it must be feeling  sometimes when we really want to have a talk and wants the support of that particular person than out of millions in this world ..and  if we have enough patiences we will try to wait but if still after sometime we will again give a “call” talking about being busy.. if its again show busy …then what else we will think the heart will deep into doubtful mode feeling well get shattered ,or that  beautiful person will soon turn into the devil  wrost and bad to us and we will start thinkin every alternatives every thing in a negative way why anger speaks haan yeah it happens  ??????????

Have anyone wondered this ? I felt it its  just becaz that favourite  person just owns ur  priorities more than anyone else in dere life…

Soo Giving more importance and more priorities in life than to u that’s call busy …

Not using brief want to elaborates ;-] …I  know some of buddies after readin to this much might be fellin boredom ohooo c’om  but read it try to get this emotions ..it happens with everyone… in the meantime have some coffee with snacks reloaded ..:-D

Life never seems to be  the way we want it but we live it in the best way we can but what if our best ppl are not with us anymore …this life is not being alone and for your u’re not alone ..well its  not a cycle of one tiers  and one peddle its all about that fav. Person in life out of millions that’s fav . buddies than any other buddies existing in ur life …

Life is all about being connected and to give equal importance’s .

My bottom line is we all know life is busy in all aspects as everyone have there  stories in acted in theres life and being busy is  in there  own self but don’t ignore them by which   there may be a set back due to u I mean associates and partners friends negligence ..if anyone wants u to stay back with u and feels happy to talk with u share dere any secrets any happiness any sad moments give them more importances give them your time there is nothing more important than who wants u for help and who always gave u importances  throughout your life soo baat karoo ..kyunki  Aamir khan said in satyam jayate –baat karne se baat banti hai LOl ha ha ;]

Well jokes apart ppl who aren’t  not getting that a little importance being liking dere fav. Persons a lot this one is dedicated for them and yes thatway the  delay and obstacles in general pursits on them.

At times , a sense of insecurity is been predominant on them only becz of not getting that sweet importance soo my dear friends alwz try to love the dear ones who ever may be from parents to your favorties  in your life ..alwz support them   ..

Life is all about sharing and giving same priorities to each other and if busy then atleast say little busy will be coming to u soon.. and im sure  they well never disturb u in ur mean time..if busy with calls  then  calls them  back  and say Im calling u after sometimes… well this is call understanding  and little small small things makes a huge difference in life and we people says after all what went wrong why we are apart .. Im happy im surrounded by not one favorties many fav who alwz gives me equal support guidance’s how much I do to them  :]

I know its going little filmy don’t be bored well its not so bored than those same daily soaps :)

Statuary warning – Don’t compare this post with my others post this one From an ordinary man with  an ordinary post  . just  a simple thought with little philosophy added mixture of masala emotions  using little bit of being sarcasm;] .:)

Ps: Lastly  There is no perfect life but we can fill with perfect moments by sharing and enjoying our  mutual understandings  ,as life is too ironic to understand it takes noise to Appreciate silence and Absence  to value presence..and when that person won’t be with u that time  we all fell the value of that person ..soo  for your ur not alone .  we all know but  why we don’t get ..may  be that’s life all about :-]

Searching my brighter side

I continue to struggle with my mba preparation... I am in such shit... I am no where, I'll go nowhere... My inadequacies stand shamelessly exposed, and its disgusting I am doing absolute zilch about it all... No placements, no mba, leaving everything behind that I cherished once in life, the end of all endings... absolute no beginnings... ha life will hit a dead end... and I can give all of this in writing... hmmm... and its surprising how I don't want to be mowed down by a hurling truck... When I am being mowed down every moment... I don't think I am upto the cut throat competition... it eats me away... it gnaws at me night and day.. I don't think I was ever up there ever, to say I was plutoed out... this is no new feeling... but I guess it was never this bad... my life like my writing has become hackneyed... And I can't chill like my friends tell me.. like many people might just say right now... and go on with the old adage "jo hota hai acche ke liye hota hai"... dunno if I still believe in it... 

And I guess I'll be staying off blogging for a while... till I really have some bright news to offer.. or I need to rant again... so long...

'Tonight Im tangled in my blanket of clouds
Dreaming aloud
Things just wont do without you, matter of fact
Im on your back, Im on your back, Im on your back


If you walk out on me, Im walking after you'
- Foo fighters "walking after you"


ps: hoping I can get the same spirit going in my life too...

Felling Being a Shame to my generation :-]

so ohkey two days for september and I still have'nt done anything fruitful...on top of that I'm playing truant.. Frankly I really want to do some real concrete work but all that i end up doing is searching really inane topics on environment.. And reading one journal after another... and i still dont know what kind of work is expected outta me... God save my requitors... Anyways getting on with it I'm finally doing a bit of socializing... ohh i so need it... First meeting with an old school friend and I realize how socially awkward I've become... I turn into this spastic suffering from acute speech retardation... Anyways that friend of mine is a complete blabber mouth so its a feat in itself if you can actually string together a complete sentence... so yaa getting on with it, we were also joined by another of her friends who like her was a bong.. and the result a bengali tirade over momos, chicken drumsticks, chocolate tart and truffle... and some random recollection of some random mithun, shanto some ghosh some anirban... imagine me..the odd one out..so okey i understand bengali and “ammi ektu ektu bangali bol ti pari kintu tah mane na” “amma ki ai rakam gupshup bhalo lage”... hope I got that right if i didnt spare me bengalis... you are the proverbial bhadra lok... accept the humble apologies of an oriya (no we are not called odiyan or odissi...god knows what they'll come up with the next time around)... so why the title of the post "What a shame"... well the diatribe or rather the rhetoric of the two bong bombshells made we realise what a shame I was to my generation..here are a few reasons..

• I still get back home after socialising at 6:30 and that is in the evening (shameful i know)
• I hardly have a social life.. I'm usually a spoil sport to any outings other than places my place or near my college.. i know I behave no less than an animal at times but bhubnaeswar is surely not my jungle
• “Madira ka sevan aaj tak nahi kiya gaya hai.”LOL  wines. neither am i a rolling stone... although I guess I know most of the jargonary attached to it... and no not even a drag from a hookah soa ciggy is out of the question...
• Well i turned more than 21+ now  and I don't have any past relationship to boast off. just had once  but that gone into sides lines although I miss her ..anyways but only mortifyingly embarassing incidents that I till date continue to regret... I've had my emotions being trampled on mercilessly.. Ahh you need to build up the melodrama...not even a “date” that I can tell my kids about... =D
• and my sartorial knowledge is shameful... so i'm not only a shame to the generation but a shame to the male species too..
• and yaa not even stepped into A maacho type Man....(Sal man ) not even spider man nor batman :-]what my friends had become now, just being a normal guy(Amul paalekaarr) ichi ichi  such a shame  to my “Mardangi “
• Till now no “struggle” with this rebellious life too what I ‘m today only because of my parents  ichi :-( . 

aint these reasons enough to be called a shame... well i've become unabashed shameless person.. my friends have so tried to change me.. and succeded to a certain extent but i guess i'm beyond repair now.. Old habits die hard.. And anyways my friends plan to get me drunk on my birthday lets see.. I 'm still in two minds about the whole evolutionary process ... So its a battle between Darwin's survival of the fittest (does my untarnished history finally get botched ..) and Lamarck's Natural Selection (or this is how I was always meant to be)... Jo jeeta wohi sikandar... Mind you i'm not talking about Sikander Kher and Mithan da son new movie comin "now he will do comedy " oh god ( as in 'finding Nemo') after Mimoh's atrocious debacle on the Silver Screen with his movie 'Jimmy'... For people low in BQ ( bollywood quotient) Mimoh is our very own Disco Dancer Mithun Chakravorty's son..( Mithun da please read Chetan Bhagats 3 mistakes, hope that acts as detterent enough to stop you from making any more movies,  .. Life is cruel irrespective of whether it is real or reel... I think I’m drunk  now  lines making me embarrassing after readin this so what u people must be going through ohoo god such a torture. I know guys what to just heal with it else have some rasgolasss :-]..

Ps: life is been blissful getting such a beautiful “parents” thanks to that Almighty Me blissed who had given me such a caring parents and guided me in my every sphere of life till now well it’s not a feeling of  being shame it’s a feeling of being protected I fill still been treated like a baby ha ha  .

Now I’m getting it why our parent’s guide us more when we grow up more . I was to my generation..here although I feel shame that I hadn’t done anything in life apart from living a normal way than to live like a “insane” Nor  also ashamed for living this "Normal life"  only becaz of my parents .

So if by listening to my parents guidelines to live a normal life than to be Macho and enjoy life with Hookaa’s on my right hand and “laandiya”  on my left side.”faaizal khan” :-]] well this line is just the credit  by watching that wonderful stupendous movie (Gangs of wassespur-2). and being not be shame then let it be .. will I happily want to continue being unabashed shameless person to this society  than to see my parents fill bad for me..

Guys September comes now it’s the month of birthday’s its special month for me as some achievements in past I got and I like it becaz all my close friends birthdays comes this month and  celebrations ,being a hindu all puja’s starts from  this month onwards ONAM already gone which alwaz comes on sept...I wish May this September brings #peace and success to each and everyone’s life and May this world be in peace and all get placed in any company as this new season starts for fresher placements .

Well till then ciao till October to come :-] all be safe and don’t be shameless person like me enjoy ur life to the fullest all but in a constructive way and listen to u’re parents what they say even those lecture’s I also fill hard to digest to  heal  its little painful but what to do...in future we all will also pass through the same phase to care our kids LOL soo kuch sunlenge tha future mein wahi line repeat karne mein there won’t be any problem he he :-]